Come soon!

Outside on the deck, cinnamon tea and a sneak cigarette I try to write the night.
The kid next door plays the piano and a turtledove coos from a nearby telephone wire.
Gentle wind rustling the trees reminds me of autumn leaves crunching under my boots, Easter egg hunts and play adventures.
In my dreams, an other life, I hold your hands and feel your smiles - still so warm and precious in my heart.
Come soon! Everything is ready and waiting on you.

On Femininity .... for my daughter.

The essence of a woman? Soft round curves and fine features, naturally rosy cheeks and pink lips, delicacies to touch and taste and smell. The emotional cycles that drive tears, laughter, sadness and joy. It colours our relationships. The ones we value and foster. And as you share your tears and joys and fears, your dreams and laughter it drives a power within , a strength to stay with things just as they are – until, you find the courage to fight for wrongs left un-righted for too long. Value this gift, for your unique femininity is your creative expression, your sexuality, your power, your vulnerabilty, your love, your grace, your sanity, your joy and your sorrow.

Time to sing

Rain falls softly, steadily
The air, thick with freshness 
glows translucent green as
leaves wave droplets to the ground

Spring occasions melancholy 
moving rocks, clearing dusty corners
remembers 
long forgotten sadness.

Sunday morning silence 
- broken -
the seductive call of a bird. 
Perhaps to another. 

Her song
unquestioned
confident
has grown within her. 

A salutation to this moment
It is her place to sing!

And then again there’s silence. 
Just raindrops falling.

Exercise my voice

I honestly feel like I lost my voice.  Somewhere along the way to becoming who I am today I lost the ability to express myself. I don’t mean this in day-to-day terms – thankfully I can still order a flat white, tell my kids I love them, facilitate a workshop session and maintain a few special friendships. What I mean relates to expressing my emotions, ideals and opinions. I confess, I am a little tempted to blame someone (one person in particular or at least some experiences we shared) but alas - assigning blame is is not healthy and totally pointless on any practical level. Let's just say how it happened is far less significant than that it happened. So anyway.

What happens is that when I go to express my opinion – (and this is aside from the very demure you’re not smart / educated / good enough to have your own opinion which has followed me from youth) is that my mind immediately moves to consider any other possible argument / angle it can think of to trap me up. And this continues until I am resigned to the fact that there is no greater value in any of the positions thats worth defending.

I’ve been told that the why mechanics of this self expressionless-ness could have to do with lack of confidence, underlying fears (maybe of failure or ignorance), blocked creativity, knowledge deficit, even laziness or just plain old i-don’t-give-a-shit-ness. At this point I have no idea. All I know is that there is nothing less conversationally interesting than total nuetrality!

This blog is a project of self-expression - exercise for my voice.

And every time I feel vulnerable I will watch Brene Brown’s wonderful TED talk on the power of vulnerability: